Erotic Powerplay Fantasies Are Emotionally Charged!

They can even lead to transformational and healing experiences, where you move from a lower state of consciousness to a higher, more integrated and aware one. With the right partner, the experiences can be very fulfilling, creating a greater sense of intimacy and connection.

BDSM and Ds fantasies can be gates for entering deep, archetypal realms and processes, and for accessing altered states of consciousness.

 

But, Dominant and Submissive Fantasies Can Be Problematic!

• Difficulties Finding a Partner:
  Often it is difficult to find a compatible or understanding partner. Because of the associated stigma, it is also difficult to find confidants who are like-minded.

• Difficulties with Prejudice:
  Most of all, because society holds such a deep prejudice against those who engage in powerplay and BDSM fantasies and activities, almost every person with such experiences has some conflicted feelings. Traditionally, the field of psychology has considered the more intense sides of powerplay to be indications of mental illness, although more recent research demonstrates that BDSM fantasies are not pathological per se. Research also shows that people who are involved in the BDSM community are much more comfortable with their submissive and dominant feelings in general.

 

Exploring Fantasies Safely:

Talking with someone is often the best way to escape from feelings of isolation. Dr Hoff has over twenty years of experience with the BDSM scene, including its beneficial, exciting, and problematic sides.

If you would like to explore your thoughts, fantasies, fetishes and experiences in a private consultation, please contact Dr Hoff for BDSM counseling. Cross-dressers are welcome!

 

If you should need psychotherapy, Dr Hoff can refer you to licensed psychotherapists who are not prejudices towards powerplay.